Sometimes I wonder, just because Dad lets me lead my own life, and never says no to anything I ask for, does that make him a negligent father who isn't obsessing over what his boy is doing every minute of the day and with who? Giving me all that independence hasn't screwed with my head, infact I've learnt to stay in line, never ask for anything unreasonable, and remain the limits I set for myself. Its not like he's totally unconcerned, infact, quite the opposite. But when i see all these obsessing parents, it makes me wonder whats wrong; and is it with me or them?